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LOWVILLE- Kay Thomas O'Brian, 82, of Number Four Road, Lowville, New York went to be with her Lord and Savior on Thursday, March 19, 2026 at her home, surrounded by her loved ones.
Kay is survived by her husband, Robert Paul O'Brian; two sons, Bradford O'Brian of Buffalo and Spencer (Sue) O'Brian of Lowville; four grandchildren, Rhonda (Matt), Cheyenne (Jake), Rebekah (Jeff) and Quintin; seven great grandchildren; one brother, Bing Thomas; several nieces, nephews and cousins. She is predeceased by one sister, Ann Grant; five brothers, Al Thomas, Glenn Thomas, Joe Thomas, Bee Thomas, and Francis Thomas.
Kay was born on April 7, 1943, a daughter of the late Roy and Kittie Dorthy Thomas. She graduated from Colton-Pierrepont Central School. On September 1, 1962 she married Robert P. O’Brian at The Colton United Methodist Church in Colton, NY. Kay raised her family and was employed as a Ward Clerk at Mercy Hospital in Watertown, N.Y., and later was a Real Estate Agent.
Kay was of the Christian faith. She enjoyed entertaining family and friends, knitting and traveling. and most of all being a homemaker.
In keeping with Kay's wishes there will be no calling hours or funeral service. Burial will be held privately by her family. Arrangements are with Iseneker Funeral Home, Inc., Lowville.
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